The one with the will-be-large leaves and the will-have-yellow-daisy-like-flowers. Thee name is Telekia speciosa, also called Ox-Eye Daisy. Does well in shade, wet or dry. Sun, too.
Is this the one with somewhat fuzzy new foliage that resemble Inula, but with leaves more lobed?
Yep, that's it. LOL Your exacting description really puts my less-than-descriptive one to shame...... LOL
Did you get one? If not, want one? I have many more.