I posted this on a muddled thread earlier, but decided I wanted feedback from local people....so...here it is.
You know those houses that for years and years you've driven by, and were always a pleasure to see the beautiful beds, eve if they were the normal pass along plants?
I've noticed in recent (year?) a couple that have started decline, and I was wanting to ask others opinion of a course of action.
My expectation is that either the house has sold or the little old lady is running out of steam.
Would it be hurtful to stop and inquire if the house has changed hands and if not, explain that you've admired the beds for years as you drove by, and would simply like to stop and thank the person who maintained them?
Or would this be hurtful to someone who may not be able to maintain them now ?