Your picture appears to be clickable, but won't enlarge for me so I'm not getting a clear look at your rhody.

Weevils leave sharp notches along outside edges of leaves. Nematodes applied in Fall can be effective for the larvae (in ground and feeding on roots) - you can hand pick the adults that are feeding on foliage. There are sticky barriers you could apply to plant base, chemicals that could be sprayed to kill adults but for some cosmetic damage on one or two plants, I wouldn't go to the expense.
Go out at night after dark with a flashlight - if you do have weevils you'll find them (climb somewhat slowly so you may not find them right at dusk). If you don't have weevils but something else like climbing cutworm that damage rhododendron here, you will have identified the pest and can take the correct action.

I'm seeing one dead branch, that could be either rhododendron borer (see link), or drought. Sometimes rhododendrons will respond to drought by having individual branches die leaving others unaffected.

To encourage a rhododendron to grow to a more compact full shape, wait until Spring when blooming and pinch out new foliage buds with your fingers as they are starting to elongate and unfurl. (flower buds are blunt/fat, foliage buds more narrow and pointed) Removing the foliage buds will encourage dormant buds positioned lower to begin to grow...repeat for about three years until you have the more dense form you desire.

Here is a link that might be useful: rhododendron borer

Weevils must climb up on the plant every night, then they go back into the ground each night. The easiest way to kill them is to use a material that is approved in your state to kill them in the ground. However, it is an endless battle. I just assume it is normal to have wesvil damage and don't worry about it. The true danger is the damage they do to the roots. Once you start trying to kill the weevils you are also killing their natural enemies.

The other damage looks the same as your Purpureum.