Have you tried Mother Earth or Rodale Organic gardening? You just might want to create your own book. Copy and Paste is a very handy process to gather what information you want or need. There probably isn't a book which will have it set up the way for all you wants and needs. The only book I had was very interesting but like a lot of us I loaned it to someone years ago and both they and myself forgot who and when. Now I use my genealogy program to collect any information for my gardening, etc. That way I have it in one place without having to look all over for needed information. I find the genealogy programs are so useful they can be used for a lot more then just genealogy anymore and I just create Name-Place-Fact files for almost anything I chose and it ends up in one file which I can access quickly and have it in one location. Then if you want to be sure you can always have it later you just burn it to a CD.

I think the Foxfire books are good because they cover a lot of the old methods of doing things, which one would need to know unless they had enough money to pay to have everything done.

I have both emery's book, and the Storey guide to country living. I'm reading Emery's now, and am only on chapter 2, so can't really comment on it, but the Storey book is a good one.

Also, check out these magazines:
Backwoods Home
Countryside
(both have websites)