What you are seeing in those photos is years and years of very high level/skilled pruning. Those photos are stunning for a reason- they are outside the norm. Even the better pruners among us aspire to be that good!

Before anyone can make any specific suggestions as regards cultivars, you need to supply us with your zone, what light the area will receive, and maybe some idea of the type soil you are working with.
Minus this info (especially the zone- the field for you to fill out in your profile is there for a reason) the most you will get are semi useful suggestions.

All of the above is precisely correct. But it also makes a difference with the exact form of the tree at the time of selection - ones with high grafted, straight trunks are never going to produce that very sculptural look you are after, despite all the pruning in the world. You need to find a young tree that already has some character to its growth, either through some bending on the trunk, some directional growth habits or the arrangement of existing branches.

This is never going to happen if purchasing a tree via mail order. You need to visit a nursery/garden center that specializes in maples and has a large and varied selection that you can chose from in person.