I forgot to mention that I've had very few tomato fruits, and although there have been two small red tomatoes with black worm holes, these worms are doing fine with the leaves; they don't seem to need fruit to survive and turn into moths.

There are many different moths whose larva will roll leaves up, for protection, while they eat the leaf and grow to adulthood. The simplest control for these is to simply squish them in the leaf. There are also moths that lay eggs that become the larva that are known as the Tomato Fruitworm and is the same as the European Corn Earworm that get inside your tomato fruit. The only control there is to find the eggs they will hatch from and destroy them.

Actually, there are other controls...I'm currently using a bug zapper, for example, and there may be attractants for certain moths. And safer soap is supposed to work. But I need to identify this worm and it's adult moth form. Anyone?

Try posting over on the Butterfly forum; they really know their caterpillars. Or maybe the Tomato Pest & Disease forum.

Great idea, I didn't know about the Tomato Pest forum.