Lavender Delight should get to about 12 - 18" tall, being in Pasadena I'd imagine it'd be the latter and is an upright rose bush. As far as color goes I would think it's similar shades, not alike, it's been awhile since I've seen them next to each other. Both are available during the season at Sequoia Nursery or you can probably check them out at HMF and compare the colors if someone else can't tell you that. Leslie