Some are more grey than green. Be careful of "frizzletop" caused by Manganese deficiency. It's a problem on sandy soils

Jelly palms are hardy to z8, which is pretty much below the fall line. There are some real beauties in SC. Just cover them if temps go below 14ºF.

So I don't have to feed, trim, babysit or do anything special to this palm????

PIndos are hardy to the west of Charlotte, NC (zone 7b) without a problem (and these are out in an unprotected rural area).

The silvery/blue leaf form is slightly more cold hardy.

Barbiedoll, the only thing you should do it apply a granular palm fertilizer around the trunk in mid-APril, June and late August. It will help support stronger, healtheir frond growth. ALthough this palm is quite drought tolerant, making sure the soil is moist (but well-drained) in the heat of the summer will be beneficial for its appearance too