If I did this correctly, you can R.S.V.P.
http://forums.gardenweb.com/forums/load/tngard/msg050731328521.html?19

Feel free to invite your friends, co-workers, neighbors, spouse, main squeeze, baby-momma, etc. The more people the greater variety of stuff we will have, and most importantly, the less of you own stuff you need to cart back home!

We have over 5 acres of space for plants and parking, so Don't be shy! we _will_ have a place for you!

As usual, a pancake breakfast will be served by the host.

And of course, our famous Pot-Luck luncheon!