Looks normal to me. What is the concern?

You mean the darker green on top near the stem? That's normal... Just the way that variety looks.

You are watching them too much.

I thought i might be looking to much but when some of my tomatoes went red the black spots remained also the pant has seemed yo be stuned for awile now

What is the name of the variety? Many varieties normally have darker shoulders just like that even when fully ripe. Do some research into what is normal for your variety so you know what to except.

Dave