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By RODRIQUE NGOWI, AP
In the United States, many of the parents are stay-at-home-moms, but there are also working mothers. Some meet in online groups, at homes and in public parks to share experiences and cheer each others' efforts.
The practice also enables parents to get insight into an infant's development since more accidents occur if a child falls sick or enters a new phase such as learning to crawl, walk or talk.
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- Posted by rick_mcdaniel Lewisville, TX (My Page) on Wed, Aug 29, 07 at 11:31
| Well....I think that requires a mommy who is always there, and always attentive to the child, which only describes less than 1% of the children, I suspect. That also requires a child who is never totally concentrating on other activities, which is really not the norm for small children. I think if it works for a few people, that is fine, but it probably won't work for very many. |
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| My MIL used to brag that she had my husband toilet trained by the time he was 11 months old. I told this to my pediatrician when I was toilet training my boys starting at about 2 1/2 to 3 year old and he said it was her that was trained, not her son. I think this is the same thing. A mother becomes attuned to a child's toilet needs and takes them when they think their child needs to go. I think this works for very few people - not the majority and probably will not be recommended by pediatricians. I don't think I would want to use a public restroom sink if I knew people were letting their kids pee in them. |
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| Well my grandson turns 3 next month, and we are still a work in progress. I can usually catch him while inside playing, but once we go outside, I and he looses all track of time.... I would be exhausted if I had to pay such close attention as to notice hand movements, and can you imagine the amount of time and energy it takes running back and forth to the bathroom when you could just be enjoying the 'baby' while they are still a 'baby'. But if it works for some...I say congratulations! Dena |
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| Homeschooling is good enough! If we were in a "free to go where you want" society like the rural areas this would make sense. Public urination/elimination is highly frowned upon in our society so I personally don't think it's a good fit in the suburbs or the city. If a person lives out on the farm/backcountry/homestead I could see how this could possibly work with a baby that spends MOST of it's time stapped on mom(snugglie kind of thing)otherwise I don't think it's sanitary(sink in public restroom is inappropriate to me.) or very practical. PJ |
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- Posted by beachplant 9b (beachplant@excite.com) on Wed, Aug 29, 07 at 19:07
| Uh, I don't want to step in baby crap or use that sink to wash my hands! Tally HO! |
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- Posted by ltcollins1949 9a TX (My Page) on Thu, Aug 30, 07 at 9:50
| Like P.J. says, if you are in living in a rural area with no neighbors, but just livestock, then that might be OK. When my son was 22 months, I had him potty trained, but we lived in a heavily wooded area in north Florida with lots of snakes. And most of you know I HATE SNAKES! It doesn't matter whether they are good or bad. I read that snakes don't like to cross a line that has human urine on it. So I always had my son just go to the bathroom outside. Well after we moved into town, I had to explain to him that it was no longer OK to urinate outside. LOL And I read recently that Native American woman had the papoose set up to where they could hang the papoose holding the baby in a tree while they were gathering food. They babies wore no diapers, but the construction of the papoose allowed for disposal of the waste and making it nicer for the babies not to have to be uncomfortable. All in all, I say diapers is my preference. And when my kids were little, I only used cloth diapers. Maybe a little more work, but less harmful to the environment. |
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| Yes, I agree with y'all. We used cloth diapers except on trips or visiting some relatives. I would not want to see a woman holding a baby over a sink where I will have to wash my hands. I believe it is true that it will not catch on because of the obvious reasons, number one not being the sanitary part but the time. Even if they did make the time it would not be appropriate in most situations. |
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| I like the no diaper idea, but can't imagine it working on an infant. If I was a new stay at home mom I think I'd give it a try. My kids were potty trained quite young. I started on them around 1 year when the bottle went. I put them in big kids undies and on the real toilet seat sitting backward so they could hold on & see themselves eliminating. I did this anytime they ate or drank anything and every 45-60 minutes or if I noticed they stopped playing for a moment or or were "holding" their privates. We made a big deal about not going in the big kids undies. I can't imagine holding them over a sink to go, unless all toilets were in use, then maybe I would. I never encouraged them to go potty outside. I was babysittng my sons kids for 2 weeks and had my then 14 month old grandson going potty in the toilet during the day and waking up dry a couple nights. His parents came home, but didn't keep reminding him or encouraging him and put him back in diapers. Now he is 27 months and still in diapers. A couple weeks ago I was babysitting again for 4 days and had him going in the toilet and he was excited about it. I haven't asked if they've kept it up....don't think I'll like the answer. I have 2 fur babies that are 18 months & 20 months & they're still having accidents. Other dogs I've had thru out my life were potty trained in a few weeks. These 2 know better, but still go in the house sometimes in the same 3 places. Frustrates me to no end! |
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- Posted by mikeandbarb z8 D/FW (jetman1979@aol.com) on Thu, Aug 30, 07 at 22:26
| I agree with PJ. If going to the restroom outside was normal we'd been raised that way. Before there was in door restrooms there were out houses. Now if you want to go back to this way of living go for it. Just remember that when you have to go late at night or in the cold of winter running outside is not fun. Plus once the hole was full you have to dig another hole and move the out house. Isn't this why we're having trouble with our FOOD, their finding out that the workers are relieving themselves in the fields? If I seen someone in a public restroom with a baby / small child hanging their tush over the sink to pee or poo in I'd be very disgusted at this. I would not want to ever go to this place again or any other place knowing this was how public rest rooms where being used. Hang their tush over the toilet for goodness sakes. |
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